Curious how it all works? We’ve got all the answers below
Only in name.
There are no timed rotations, no whistles, no awkward icebreaker games. This is a hosted, curated social wine tour designed to feel natural, relaxed and fun.
Connection unfolds organically across the day — with gentle hosting to help conversations flow.
We think so. Instead of endless swiping, you:
Real chemistry is easier to feel in person.
That’s completely normal. This experience is about:
Romance is a bonus — not a guarantee. Many guests leave with new friends, business contacts, or simply a refreshing social reset.
Honestly? Less awkward than traditional dating formats. Because:
The hosting is there to reduce friction, not create pressure.
That’s normal. Almost everyone is — even the confident-looking ones. That’s why we host the experience thoughtfully. You won’t be left standing alone unless you choose to be.
No. You are always in control of how you engage. The host helps create flow and introductions, but there is zero pressure to interact beyond what feels comfortable.
Some people float between groups. Some prefer deeper one-on-one chats. Both are completely welcome.
Yes.
Safety, consent and comfort come first.
You’ll join a curated group (usually around 30–32 guests) and travel together to selected wineries. Throughout the day:
It’s structured enough to avoid awkwardness — but relaxed enough to feel real.
We use your registration details and interest questions to curate a balanced group. We aim to:
We don’t just sell tickets — we curate the bus.
We curate across the following age brackets:
Where possible, we align guests within similar ranges so the day feels natural and comfortable. Each event clearly states the intended age range before booking.
We are currently running heterosexual tours. If there is strong demand for LGBTQ+ or same-sex curated tours, we are very open to creating dedicated experiences in future.
You’re welcome to register interest for future curated formats.
After the event, guests may have the option to:
We don’t publicly share contact details without consent.
Your ticket includes:
Lunch is typically at your own cost (unless otherwise stated for a specific event).
That’s absolutely fine. Non-alcoholic options are available at venues. This is a connection-led experience, not an alcohol-led one. Many guests moderate their intake or don’t drink at all — you won’t feel out of place.
Smart casual. Think:
If you feel good, you’ll show up better.
Pricing varies depending on the tour date and what’s included. You can view the current ticket price on the booking page before you check out.
Yes.
Safety, consent and comfort come first.
Refund & Cancellation Policy: We get it, life happens. Here’s how we handle it:
Cancellations by You
Transfers & Credits
Changed your mind on the date? No stress. You can transfer your ticket to a future event, as long as you let us know before the 7-day window closes.
If We Cancel
On the rare occasion SDWT needs to cancel an event, you’ll have the choice of a full refund or a credit note to use on a future tour, whichever works best for you.
How to Get in Touch
To request a refund, credit or transfer, reach out to us at thespeeddatingwinetour@gmail.com and we’ll sort it out promptly.
Still have questions? Get in touch and we’ll do our best to answer them.
If you’re ready to find true connection with someone beyond the phone screens, join our waitlist and be the first to hear when Expressions of Interest open for our pilot tour group.
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